How does one succeed in life?
16.06.2025 01:27
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
What blowjob techniques do you use for your man to cum inside your mouth?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why does he text me first but when I never text first he gets mad?
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What do women talk about mostly(among themselves)?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
What are some other ways to say "you're welcome" in French besides "de rien"?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Does a person with schizophrenia hear voices?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
If women aren't shallow, why do most tall, good-looking men have girlfriends?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Have your parents ever walked in on you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Ask yourself:
That's it for today.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?